Have you ever thought about your future spouse? Or should I say, when you think about your future spouse, do you ever wonder about their personality, style, or favorite hobby—what their job, dream-job, or family will entail?

Recently I was talking with some friends about how I am one of those people who, as Donald Miller so eloquently puts it, just “don’t get grace”. I really, really want to get it. I’m so frustrated by the fact that I don’t. And honestly, I’m tired.